Just because something terrible happens to you
Doesn't mean you should be corrupt and harmful.
It doesn't mean you are allowed to make the world worse.

Maybe the only real misfortune in life is to let experiences make us corrupted and harmful.

For if you are corrupted you give yourself the excuse to lie, cheat, steal, betray and not be accountable.
It is understandable to unconsciously desire this, to use a righteous excuse to not do what is hard and difficult.

In Nazi Germany and in the Russian concentrations camps of the gulag, There were people that did not become corrupted, people that stayed helpful and kind not matter the terrible things that happened to them, they still helped and made the world better, no matter the excuses they had to be terrible.

Maybe that is the real test of humanity and kindness.
No matter your wound or abuse, your suffering or excuse, to be kind and helpful to others.
Then the world becomes a better place.

For you are the alchemist that turns lead into gold

You can be the one who turns Poison into Medicine.